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How to create accessible spaces | A complete guide to inclusion

Learn what accessibility really means, how to identify your own needs, and how to create spaces that work for everyone, not just those they were originally designed for.

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Accessibility needs, or support needs, are about making spaces, interactions, and systems usable for as many people as possible. This means recognizing that people interact with the world in different ways and designing for that diversity from the start, rather than as an afterthought.

These needs span multiple dimensions of human experience: physical, digital, social, sensory, and cultural. The goal is ensuring people can participate fully without having to contort themselves to fit systems that weren't designed with them in mind.

People's needs are as diverse as people themselves. Someone might need elevators and ramps, noise control and lighting adjustments, clear instructions and flexible timing, language access and diverse representation, scent-free spaces and executive function support, automatic doors and captioning services. Many people have multiple, intersecting needs that don't fit into traditional categories. At its core, accessibility is about reducing barriers before people have to ask for their needs to be met.

What neurodivergent accessibility actually looks like

Neurodivergent people, including those with ADHD, Autism, dyslexia, trauma responses, anxiety, depression, OCD, and other neurological differences, often need support that isn't immediately visible or intuitive to others. What feels "normal" or "functional" to one person might be exhausting, triggering, or overwhelming to another. Rather than creating separate categories, neurodivergent accessibility needs often overlap and intersect. Here are some common examples of what support might look like:

Environmental needs might include noise-canceling headphones, quiet spaces, or the freedom to verbally stim. Some people need soft, natural lighting instead of harsh fluorescents, while others require predictable lighting that doesn't change suddenly. Movement needs could mean standing desks, fidget tools, the ability to leave and re-enter spaces, or having multiple seating options available.

Communication support often involves offering both written and verbal options, since many neurodivergent people process information differently. This includes using clear, direct language while avoiding implied meanings or unspoken expectations. Trauma-informed communication might mean avoiding sudden topic changes or providing content warnings. Many people benefit from processing time: pauses in conversation, written follow-ups, or advance notice of what will be discussed.

Structure and routine can look like flexible schedules that accommodate varying energy levels, asynchronous work options, or deadline extensions. Some people thrive with detailed task breakdowns and clear priorities, while others need open-ended flexibility. Body doubling (working alongside someone for accountability and focus) helps many neurodivergent people, as does having backup plans when routines change unexpectedly.

Emotional and sensory regulation might involve scent-free spaces, access to comfort items, or the ability to take breaks without explanation. For people with trauma histories, this could include avoiding sudden loud noises, having clear exit routes, or knowing who will be present in advance.

The key is recognizing that these needs aren't accommodations but design features that help everyone participate more fully.

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How to identify your own accessibility needs

If you're unsure what your accessibility needs are, start by paying attention to patterns over time. Accessibility needs often show up as things that drain you, create frustration, or make certain tasks harder than they need to be.

Step 1: Notice what's draining you

  • When do you feel exhausted after tasks that don't seem to tire others?
  • What situations make you feel overwhelmed, stuck, or unable to focus?
  • Are there environments that make it hard for you to engage or participate fully?
  • Do certain communication styles (like fast-paced conversations or indirect language) make things harder for you?

Step 2: Look for patterns in your experience

  • Do you consistently struggle with deadlines, time management, or organization?
  • Do you feel more at ease in structured or flexible environments?
  • Are there particular noises, lights, or textures that make it difficult to focus?
  • Do you find certain interactions exhausting while others are energizing?

Step 3: Try different approaches

  • Experiment with different ways of working: do written instructions help you more than verbal ones?
  • Test out noise management strategies like headphones or quiet spaces
  • Adjust your schedule to include breaks or focus periods and see if this makes a difference
  • Try different forms of communication (email versus calls, video versus text) to see what works best for you

Step 4: Shift your perspective

Once you start seeing patterns, frame them as support needs rather than personal failures. Society often teaches us to see our differences as deficits, but these are actually valuable insights about how you function best. Instead of saying "I'm bad at remembering things," you might say "I need written reminders." Instead of "I can't handle loud spaces," try "I need quiet or noise-canceling options to focus." It's normal to have been taught that these needs are weaknesses or something to overcome. But recognizing your needs isn't giving up or being difficult, it's understanding how you work best.

How to communicate your accessibility needs at work and beyond

Advocating for yourself can feel challenging, especially if you're used to pushing through discomfort to fit in. But stating your needs clearly helps create a more accessible world for everyone.

In professional settings

Try direct, solution-focused language:

  • "I communicate best in writing. If a phone call is needed, please schedule in advance."
  • "I do better with a clear agenda. Could you send me the key points beforehand?"
  • "I work best in quiet spaces. Can we book a room without background noise?"

I  do this by adding my access needs to my email signature. This way, people I collaborate with know upfront how to create a working relationship that supports both of us.

A dark gray email signature with white text. It reads: ‘Beaux Miebach | they, them, theirs’ in bold, followed by ‘Inclusion & Belonging Lead at Tiimo’ in regular weight. Below, a line in smaller text states, ‘I am an AuDHD’er and can take longer to reply. If an email is urgent, please write “urgent” in the subject line.
My work email signature

Some other examples of email signatures are: 

  • “I work flexibly – You might get emails from me outside standard hours, but there’s no pressure to reply until you’re working.”
  • “If I haven’t replied in 3 days, a friendly nudge is always welcome.”
  • “I’m Autistic, so I appreciate clear, concise communication – please avoid metaphors and make requests explicit.”
  • “I communicate best through speech, so you may receive a Loom video instead of a written response.”

In social or community settings

Keep it friendly and straightforward:

  • "Loud spaces can be overwhelming for me. Is there a quiet area I can step into if needed?"
  • "I might need a break during long conversations. I promise it's not about you!"
  • "I prefer text over calls and appreciate clear, direct communication."

How to ask about someone’s accessibility needs

Accessibility should never be an afterthought or last-minute add-on. It should be built into how we collaborate, meet, and engage from the start. Instead of putting the burden on people to advocate for themselves repeatedly, proactively ask about accessibility and support needs at the beginning of any interaction.

If you're hesitant about asking, think about how seen and valued you would feel if someone took the time to ask what would help you do your best work or feel most comfortable.

When starting to work together

  • "I want to make sure this works well for both of us. Do you have any accessibility or support needs that would help make our collaboration smoother?"
  • "Everyone works in their own way, so if there are any tools, structures, or formats that support you best, I'd love to know."
  • "Would it be helpful to check in about accessibility preferences now so we can create a setup that works well from the beginning?"
  • "I like to ask upfront about working styles and any accommodations that help people do their best work. What would be most helpful for you?"

During meetings or discussions

  • "Would a written agenda or flexible timing help?"
  • "Just so you know, you're welcome to stand, move around, or fidget during our meeting if that helps you focus."
  • "Would you prefer follow-ups in writing or a quick voice note?"
  • "Should we build in some pause time, or does this pace work for everyone?

For social settings

  • "Would you prefer to meet somewhere quieter or at a different time of day?"
  • "Let me know if there's anything that would make this more comfortable for you."
  • "Are there any environmental things that would help you feel more at ease here?"
  • "What kind of setting usually works best for you when we hang out?"

Offer options instead of open-ended questions

Rather than making someone spell out their needs from scratch, try offering choices upfront:

  • "Would you prefer video on or off during calls?"
  • "Do you want to communicate via email, text, or voice notes?"
  • "Would structured check-ins be helpful, or do you prefer flexibility?"
  • "Do you want an agenda ahead of time, or are spontaneous discussions okay?"

The key is integrating these questions naturally so accessibility becomes a normal part of creating inclusive spaces together, not an inconvenience to work around.

Accessibility as a daily practice

Accessibility isn't just a responsibility for disabled and neurodivergent people, it's something we all benefit from. Small shifts in how we interact can create meaningful change:

  • Add accessibility needs to your email signature
  • Check in with friends about what makes them feel comfortable and supported
  • Normalize fidget tools, alternative communication styles, and flexible seating
  • Advocate for accessibility in public spaces, workplaces, and community events
  • Offer multiple ways to participate in activities (in-person, virtual, asynchronous)
  • Use clear, direct language in written and verbal communication
  • Create quiet spaces or break areas in shared environments
  • Ask "How can we make this work better for everyone?" as a regular practice

When accessibility becomes woven into everyday interactions, it stops being an afterthought and starts being the norm. We need flexibility, options, and thoughtful design that lets more people fully participate, rather than one-size-fits-all solutions. By making small, conscious changes, we create a world that doesn't just accommodate but genuinely supports all kinds of brains and bodies.

About the author

Beaux Miebach

Beaux is Tiimo’s Inclusion and Belonging Lead, a queer AuDHD leader designing systems where accessibility and intersectionality come first.

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February 20, 2025
• Updated:
June 19, 2025

How to create accessible spaces | A complete guide to inclusion

Learn what accessibility really means, how to identify your own needs, and how to create spaces that work for everyone, not just those they were originally designed for.

No items found.

Accessibility needs, or support needs, are about making spaces, interactions, and systems usable for as many people as possible. This means recognizing that people interact with the world in different ways and designing for that diversity from the start, rather than as an afterthought.

These needs span multiple dimensions of human experience: physical, digital, social, sensory, and cultural. The goal is ensuring people can participate fully without having to contort themselves to fit systems that weren't designed with them in mind.

People's needs are as diverse as people themselves. Someone might need elevators and ramps, noise control and lighting adjustments, clear instructions and flexible timing, language access and diverse representation, scent-free spaces and executive function support, automatic doors and captioning services. Many people have multiple, intersecting needs that don't fit into traditional categories. At its core, accessibility is about reducing barriers before people have to ask for their needs to be met.

What neurodivergent accessibility actually looks like

Neurodivergent people, including those with ADHD, Autism, dyslexia, trauma responses, anxiety, depression, OCD, and other neurological differences, often need support that isn't immediately visible or intuitive to others. What feels "normal" or "functional" to one person might be exhausting, triggering, or overwhelming to another. Rather than creating separate categories, neurodivergent accessibility needs often overlap and intersect. Here are some common examples of what support might look like:

Environmental needs might include noise-canceling headphones, quiet spaces, or the freedom to verbally stim. Some people need soft, natural lighting instead of harsh fluorescents, while others require predictable lighting that doesn't change suddenly. Movement needs could mean standing desks, fidget tools, the ability to leave and re-enter spaces, or having multiple seating options available.

Communication support often involves offering both written and verbal options, since many neurodivergent people process information differently. This includes using clear, direct language while avoiding implied meanings or unspoken expectations. Trauma-informed communication might mean avoiding sudden topic changes or providing content warnings. Many people benefit from processing time: pauses in conversation, written follow-ups, or advance notice of what will be discussed.

Structure and routine can look like flexible schedules that accommodate varying energy levels, asynchronous work options, or deadline extensions. Some people thrive with detailed task breakdowns and clear priorities, while others need open-ended flexibility. Body doubling (working alongside someone for accountability and focus) helps many neurodivergent people, as does having backup plans when routines change unexpectedly.

Emotional and sensory regulation might involve scent-free spaces, access to comfort items, or the ability to take breaks without explanation. For people with trauma histories, this could include avoiding sudden loud noises, having clear exit routes, or knowing who will be present in advance.

The key is recognizing that these needs aren't accommodations but design features that help everyone participate more fully.

Planning should work with your brain, not against it

Tiimo was built by and for neurodivergent people. Use AI planning, check-ins, and visual timelines to stay focused and reduce overwhelm.

Apple logo
Get Tiimo on App Store
Google logo
Get Tiimo on Google Play

How to identify your own accessibility needs

If you're unsure what your accessibility needs are, start by paying attention to patterns over time. Accessibility needs often show up as things that drain you, create frustration, or make certain tasks harder than they need to be.

Step 1: Notice what's draining you

  • When do you feel exhausted after tasks that don't seem to tire others?
  • What situations make you feel overwhelmed, stuck, or unable to focus?
  • Are there environments that make it hard for you to engage or participate fully?
  • Do certain communication styles (like fast-paced conversations or indirect language) make things harder for you?

Step 2: Look for patterns in your experience

  • Do you consistently struggle with deadlines, time management, or organization?
  • Do you feel more at ease in structured or flexible environments?
  • Are there particular noises, lights, or textures that make it difficult to focus?
  • Do you find certain interactions exhausting while others are energizing?

Step 3: Try different approaches

  • Experiment with different ways of working: do written instructions help you more than verbal ones?
  • Test out noise management strategies like headphones or quiet spaces
  • Adjust your schedule to include breaks or focus periods and see if this makes a difference
  • Try different forms of communication (email versus calls, video versus text) to see what works best for you

Step 4: Shift your perspective

Once you start seeing patterns, frame them as support needs rather than personal failures. Society often teaches us to see our differences as deficits, but these are actually valuable insights about how you function best. Instead of saying "I'm bad at remembering things," you might say "I need written reminders." Instead of "I can't handle loud spaces," try "I need quiet or noise-canceling options to focus." It's normal to have been taught that these needs are weaknesses or something to overcome. But recognizing your needs isn't giving up or being difficult, it's understanding how you work best.

How to communicate your accessibility needs at work and beyond

Advocating for yourself can feel challenging, especially if you're used to pushing through discomfort to fit in. But stating your needs clearly helps create a more accessible world for everyone.

In professional settings

Try direct, solution-focused language:

  • "I communicate best in writing. If a phone call is needed, please schedule in advance."
  • "I do better with a clear agenda. Could you send me the key points beforehand?"
  • "I work best in quiet spaces. Can we book a room without background noise?"

I  do this by adding my access needs to my email signature. This way, people I collaborate with know upfront how to create a working relationship that supports both of us.

A dark gray email signature with white text. It reads: ‘Beaux Miebach | they, them, theirs’ in bold, followed by ‘Inclusion & Belonging Lead at Tiimo’ in regular weight. Below, a line in smaller text states, ‘I am an AuDHD’er and can take longer to reply. If an email is urgent, please write “urgent” in the subject line.
My work email signature

Some other examples of email signatures are: 

  • “I work flexibly – You might get emails from me outside standard hours, but there’s no pressure to reply until you’re working.”
  • “If I haven’t replied in 3 days, a friendly nudge is always welcome.”
  • “I’m Autistic, so I appreciate clear, concise communication – please avoid metaphors and make requests explicit.”
  • “I communicate best through speech, so you may receive a Loom video instead of a written response.”

In social or community settings

Keep it friendly and straightforward:

  • "Loud spaces can be overwhelming for me. Is there a quiet area I can step into if needed?"
  • "I might need a break during long conversations. I promise it's not about you!"
  • "I prefer text over calls and appreciate clear, direct communication."

How to ask about someone’s accessibility needs

Accessibility should never be an afterthought or last-minute add-on. It should be built into how we collaborate, meet, and engage from the start. Instead of putting the burden on people to advocate for themselves repeatedly, proactively ask about accessibility and support needs at the beginning of any interaction.

If you're hesitant about asking, think about how seen and valued you would feel if someone took the time to ask what would help you do your best work or feel most comfortable.

When starting to work together

  • "I want to make sure this works well for both of us. Do you have any accessibility or support needs that would help make our collaboration smoother?"
  • "Everyone works in their own way, so if there are any tools, structures, or formats that support you best, I'd love to know."
  • "Would it be helpful to check in about accessibility preferences now so we can create a setup that works well from the beginning?"
  • "I like to ask upfront about working styles and any accommodations that help people do their best work. What would be most helpful for you?"

During meetings or discussions

  • "Would a written agenda or flexible timing help?"
  • "Just so you know, you're welcome to stand, move around, or fidget during our meeting if that helps you focus."
  • "Would you prefer follow-ups in writing or a quick voice note?"
  • "Should we build in some pause time, or does this pace work for everyone?

For social settings

  • "Would you prefer to meet somewhere quieter or at a different time of day?"
  • "Let me know if there's anything that would make this more comfortable for you."
  • "Are there any environmental things that would help you feel more at ease here?"
  • "What kind of setting usually works best for you when we hang out?"

Offer options instead of open-ended questions

Rather than making someone spell out their needs from scratch, try offering choices upfront:

  • "Would you prefer video on or off during calls?"
  • "Do you want to communicate via email, text, or voice notes?"
  • "Would structured check-ins be helpful, or do you prefer flexibility?"
  • "Do you want an agenda ahead of time, or are spontaneous discussions okay?"

The key is integrating these questions naturally so accessibility becomes a normal part of creating inclusive spaces together, not an inconvenience to work around.

Accessibility as a daily practice

Accessibility isn't just a responsibility for disabled and neurodivergent people, it's something we all benefit from. Small shifts in how we interact can create meaningful change:

  • Add accessibility needs to your email signature
  • Check in with friends about what makes them feel comfortable and supported
  • Normalize fidget tools, alternative communication styles, and flexible seating
  • Advocate for accessibility in public spaces, workplaces, and community events
  • Offer multiple ways to participate in activities (in-person, virtual, asynchronous)
  • Use clear, direct language in written and verbal communication
  • Create quiet spaces or break areas in shared environments
  • Ask "How can we make this work better for everyone?" as a regular practice

When accessibility becomes woven into everyday interactions, it stops being an afterthought and starts being the norm. We need flexibility, options, and thoughtful design that lets more people fully participate, rather than one-size-fits-all solutions. By making small, conscious changes, we create a world that doesn't just accommodate but genuinely supports all kinds of brains and bodies.

About the author

Beaux Miebach

Beaux is Tiimo’s Inclusion and Belonging Lead, a queer AuDHD leader designing systems where accessibility and intersectionality come first.

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Accessibility needs, or support needs, are about making spaces, interactions, and systems usable for as many people as possible. This means recognizing that people interact with the world in different ways and designing for that diversity from the start, rather than as an afterthought.

These needs span multiple dimensions of human experience: physical, digital, social, sensory, and cultural. The goal is ensuring people can participate fully without having to contort themselves to fit systems that weren't designed with them in mind.

People's needs are as diverse as people themselves. Someone might need elevators and ramps, noise control and lighting adjustments, clear instructions and flexible timing, language access and diverse representation, scent-free spaces and executive function support, automatic doors and captioning services. Many people have multiple, intersecting needs that don't fit into traditional categories. At its core, accessibility is about reducing barriers before people have to ask for their needs to be met.

What neurodivergent accessibility actually looks like

Neurodivergent people, including those with ADHD, Autism, dyslexia, trauma responses, anxiety, depression, OCD, and other neurological differences, often need support that isn't immediately visible or intuitive to others. What feels "normal" or "functional" to one person might be exhausting, triggering, or overwhelming to another. Rather than creating separate categories, neurodivergent accessibility needs often overlap and intersect. Here are some common examples of what support might look like:

Environmental needs might include noise-canceling headphones, quiet spaces, or the freedom to verbally stim. Some people need soft, natural lighting instead of harsh fluorescents, while others require predictable lighting that doesn't change suddenly. Movement needs could mean standing desks, fidget tools, the ability to leave and re-enter spaces, or having multiple seating options available.

Communication support often involves offering both written and verbal options, since many neurodivergent people process information differently. This includes using clear, direct language while avoiding implied meanings or unspoken expectations. Trauma-informed communication might mean avoiding sudden topic changes or providing content warnings. Many people benefit from processing time: pauses in conversation, written follow-ups, or advance notice of what will be discussed.

Structure and routine can look like flexible schedules that accommodate varying energy levels, asynchronous work options, or deadline extensions. Some people thrive with detailed task breakdowns and clear priorities, while others need open-ended flexibility. Body doubling (working alongside someone for accountability and focus) helps many neurodivergent people, as does having backup plans when routines change unexpectedly.

Emotional and sensory regulation might involve scent-free spaces, access to comfort items, or the ability to take breaks without explanation. For people with trauma histories, this could include avoiding sudden loud noises, having clear exit routes, or knowing who will be present in advance.

The key is recognizing that these needs aren't accommodations but design features that help everyone participate more fully.

How to identify your own accessibility needs

If you're unsure what your accessibility needs are, start by paying attention to patterns over time. Accessibility needs often show up as things that drain you, create frustration, or make certain tasks harder than they need to be.

Step 1: Notice what's draining you

  • When do you feel exhausted after tasks that don't seem to tire others?
  • What situations make you feel overwhelmed, stuck, or unable to focus?
  • Are there environments that make it hard for you to engage or participate fully?
  • Do certain communication styles (like fast-paced conversations or indirect language) make things harder for you?

Step 2: Look for patterns in your experience

  • Do you consistently struggle with deadlines, time management, or organization?
  • Do you feel more at ease in structured or flexible environments?
  • Are there particular noises, lights, or textures that make it difficult to focus?
  • Do you find certain interactions exhausting while others are energizing?

Step 3: Try different approaches

  • Experiment with different ways of working: do written instructions help you more than verbal ones?
  • Test out noise management strategies like headphones or quiet spaces
  • Adjust your schedule to include breaks or focus periods and see if this makes a difference
  • Try different forms of communication (email versus calls, video versus text) to see what works best for you

Step 4: Shift your perspective

Once you start seeing patterns, frame them as support needs rather than personal failures. Society often teaches us to see our differences as deficits, but these are actually valuable insights about how you function best. Instead of saying "I'm bad at remembering things," you might say "I need written reminders." Instead of "I can't handle loud spaces," try "I need quiet or noise-canceling options to focus." It's normal to have been taught that these needs are weaknesses or something to overcome. But recognizing your needs isn't giving up or being difficult, it's understanding how you work best.

How to communicate your accessibility needs at work and beyond

Advocating for yourself can feel challenging, especially if you're used to pushing through discomfort to fit in. But stating your needs clearly helps create a more accessible world for everyone.

In professional settings

Try direct, solution-focused language:

  • "I communicate best in writing. If a phone call is needed, please schedule in advance."
  • "I do better with a clear agenda. Could you send me the key points beforehand?"
  • "I work best in quiet spaces. Can we book a room without background noise?"

I  do this by adding my access needs to my email signature. This way, people I collaborate with know upfront how to create a working relationship that supports both of us.

A dark gray email signature with white text. It reads: ‘Beaux Miebach | they, them, theirs’ in bold, followed by ‘Inclusion & Belonging Lead at Tiimo’ in regular weight. Below, a line in smaller text states, ‘I am an AuDHD’er and can take longer to reply. If an email is urgent, please write “urgent” in the subject line.
My work email signature

Some other examples of email signatures are: 

  • “I work flexibly – You might get emails from me outside standard hours, but there’s no pressure to reply until you’re working.”
  • “If I haven’t replied in 3 days, a friendly nudge is always welcome.”
  • “I’m Autistic, so I appreciate clear, concise communication – please avoid metaphors and make requests explicit.”
  • “I communicate best through speech, so you may receive a Loom video instead of a written response.”

In social or community settings

Keep it friendly and straightforward:

  • "Loud spaces can be overwhelming for me. Is there a quiet area I can step into if needed?"
  • "I might need a break during long conversations. I promise it's not about you!"
  • "I prefer text over calls and appreciate clear, direct communication."

How to ask about someone’s accessibility needs

Accessibility should never be an afterthought or last-minute add-on. It should be built into how we collaborate, meet, and engage from the start. Instead of putting the burden on people to advocate for themselves repeatedly, proactively ask about accessibility and support needs at the beginning of any interaction.

If you're hesitant about asking, think about how seen and valued you would feel if someone took the time to ask what would help you do your best work or feel most comfortable.

When starting to work together

  • "I want to make sure this works well for both of us. Do you have any accessibility or support needs that would help make our collaboration smoother?"
  • "Everyone works in their own way, so if there are any tools, structures, or formats that support you best, I'd love to know."
  • "Would it be helpful to check in about accessibility preferences now so we can create a setup that works well from the beginning?"
  • "I like to ask upfront about working styles and any accommodations that help people do their best work. What would be most helpful for you?"

During meetings or discussions

  • "Would a written agenda or flexible timing help?"
  • "Just so you know, you're welcome to stand, move around, or fidget during our meeting if that helps you focus."
  • "Would you prefer follow-ups in writing or a quick voice note?"
  • "Should we build in some pause time, or does this pace work for everyone?

For social settings

  • "Would you prefer to meet somewhere quieter or at a different time of day?"
  • "Let me know if there's anything that would make this more comfortable for you."
  • "Are there any environmental things that would help you feel more at ease here?"
  • "What kind of setting usually works best for you when we hang out?"

Offer options instead of open-ended questions

Rather than making someone spell out their needs from scratch, try offering choices upfront:

  • "Would you prefer video on or off during calls?"
  • "Do you want to communicate via email, text, or voice notes?"
  • "Would structured check-ins be helpful, or do you prefer flexibility?"
  • "Do you want an agenda ahead of time, or are spontaneous discussions okay?"

The key is integrating these questions naturally so accessibility becomes a normal part of creating inclusive spaces together, not an inconvenience to work around.

Accessibility as a daily practice

Accessibility isn't just a responsibility for disabled and neurodivergent people, it's something we all benefit from. Small shifts in how we interact can create meaningful change:

  • Add accessibility needs to your email signature
  • Check in with friends about what makes them feel comfortable and supported
  • Normalize fidget tools, alternative communication styles, and flexible seating
  • Advocate for accessibility in public spaces, workplaces, and community events
  • Offer multiple ways to participate in activities (in-person, virtual, asynchronous)
  • Use clear, direct language in written and verbal communication
  • Create quiet spaces or break areas in shared environments
  • Ask "How can we make this work better for everyone?" as a regular practice

When accessibility becomes woven into everyday interactions, it stops being an afterthought and starts being the norm. We need flexibility, options, and thoughtful design that lets more people fully participate, rather than one-size-fits-all solutions. By making small, conscious changes, we create a world that doesn't just accommodate but genuinely supports all kinds of brains and bodies.

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