Autistic women and girls are masking to such a degree that they risk late or missed diagnosis. Masking may help socially and professionally in the short term, but may also harm mental health and a person’s sense of self-worth in the process.
Autistic women and girls often feel an overwhelming pressure to mask their traits to fit into spaces that weren’t designed with them in mind. Masking—hiding or changing behaviors to meet neurotypical expectations—can make social and professional interactions feel easier in the moment, but it often comes at a significant cost.
Rather than placing the responsibility on Autistic folks to adapt, it’s time to focus on changing systems and environments to better support all kinds of brains. Let’s unpack what masking is, why it happens, and how we can create safer spaces for Autistic folks to unmask.
Masking, also known as camouflaging, is when Autistic people suppress their Autistic traits or mimic behaviors to blend in with neurotypical expectations. For example, someone might force themselves to make eye contact, rehearse conversations ahead of time, or hide their stimming.
For many Autistic women and girls, masking can feel like the only way to avoid judgment, bullying, or being misunderstood. It’s not about wanting to fit in for the sake of it but instead it’s often about survival in spaces that don’t accommodate their needs.
While masking might help avoid negative attention or even open up opportunities in the moment, it’s exhausting because it requires constant mental effort and emotional self-monitoring, leaving little room for authenticity or self-expression.
Why do Autistic women and girls mask more often?
For decades, Autism research and diagnostic tools were designed with boys in mind, leaving women and girls misunderstood and unsupported. As a result, many Autistic women and girls feel they have no choice but to mask in order to navigate environments that don’t see or accommodate them.
Autistic girls, for example, might mimic peers to appear socially engaged or force smiles to seem “approachable,” even when they feel overwhelmed or disconnected. This kind of social adaptation can help them avoid standing out, but it often means their challenges go unnoticed by teachers, parents, and even healthcare professionals.
On top of that, gendered expectations play a huge role. Girls are often expected to be polite, nurturing, and socially fluent, adding another layer of pressure to hide their authentic selves. These dynamics make it far more likely for Autistic women and girls to be misdiagnosed with conditions like anxiety or depression—or completely overlooked for a diagnosis until adulthood.
Autistic women and girls are masking to such a degree that they risk late or missed diagnosis. Masking may help socially and professionally in the short term, but may also harm mental health and a person’s sense of self-worth in the process.
Autistic women and girls often feel an overwhelming pressure to mask their traits to fit into spaces that weren’t designed with them in mind. Masking—hiding or changing behaviors to meet neurotypical expectations—can make social and professional interactions feel easier in the moment, but it often comes at a significant cost.
Rather than placing the responsibility on Autistic folks to adapt, it’s time to focus on changing systems and environments to better support all kinds of brains. Let’s unpack what masking is, why it happens, and how we can create safer spaces for Autistic folks to unmask.
Masking, also known as camouflaging, is when Autistic people suppress their Autistic traits or mimic behaviors to blend in with neurotypical expectations. For example, someone might force themselves to make eye contact, rehearse conversations ahead of time, or hide their stimming.
For many Autistic women and girls, masking can feel like the only way to avoid judgment, bullying, or being misunderstood. It’s not about wanting to fit in for the sake of it but instead it’s often about survival in spaces that don’t accommodate their needs.
While masking might help avoid negative attention or even open up opportunities in the moment, it’s exhausting because it requires constant mental effort and emotional self-monitoring, leaving little room for authenticity or self-expression.
Why do Autistic women and girls mask more often?
For decades, Autism research and diagnostic tools were designed with boys in mind, leaving women and girls misunderstood and unsupported. As a result, many Autistic women and girls feel they have no choice but to mask in order to navigate environments that don’t see or accommodate them.
Autistic girls, for example, might mimic peers to appear socially engaged or force smiles to seem “approachable,” even when they feel overwhelmed or disconnected. This kind of social adaptation can help them avoid standing out, but it often means their challenges go unnoticed by teachers, parents, and even healthcare professionals.
On top of that, gendered expectations play a huge role. Girls are often expected to be polite, nurturing, and socially fluent, adding another layer of pressure to hide their authentic selves. These dynamics make it far more likely for Autistic women and girls to be misdiagnosed with conditions like anxiety or depression—or completely overlooked for a diagnosis until adulthood.
Autistic women and girls are masking to such a degree that they risk late or missed diagnosis. Masking may help socially and professionally in the short term, but may also harm mental health and a person’s sense of self-worth in the process.
Autistic women and girls often feel an overwhelming pressure to mask their traits to fit into spaces that weren’t designed with them in mind. Masking—hiding or changing behaviors to meet neurotypical expectations—can make social and professional interactions feel easier in the moment, but it often comes at a significant cost.
Rather than placing the responsibility on Autistic folks to adapt, it’s time to focus on changing systems and environments to better support all kinds of brains. Let’s unpack what masking is, why it happens, and how we can create safer spaces for Autistic folks to unmask.
Masking, also known as camouflaging, is when Autistic people suppress their Autistic traits or mimic behaviors to blend in with neurotypical expectations. For example, someone might force themselves to make eye contact, rehearse conversations ahead of time, or hide their stimming.
For many Autistic women and girls, masking can feel like the only way to avoid judgment, bullying, or being misunderstood. It’s not about wanting to fit in for the sake of it but instead it’s often about survival in spaces that don’t accommodate their needs.
While masking might help avoid negative attention or even open up opportunities in the moment, it’s exhausting because it requires constant mental effort and emotional self-monitoring, leaving little room for authenticity or self-expression.
Why do Autistic women and girls mask more often?
For decades, Autism research and diagnostic tools were designed with boys in mind, leaving women and girls misunderstood and unsupported. As a result, many Autistic women and girls feel they have no choice but to mask in order to navigate environments that don’t see or accommodate them.
Autistic girls, for example, might mimic peers to appear socially engaged or force smiles to seem “approachable,” even when they feel overwhelmed or disconnected. This kind of social adaptation can help them avoid standing out, but it often means their challenges go unnoticed by teachers, parents, and even healthcare professionals.
On top of that, gendered expectations play a huge role. Girls are often expected to be polite, nurturing, and socially fluent, adding another layer of pressure to hide their authentic selves. These dynamics make it far more likely for Autistic women and girls to be misdiagnosed with conditions like anxiety or depression—or completely overlooked for a diagnosis until adulthood.
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